Feel free to turn on “White Flag” for this
post; I’m certainly going to town with it.
Dido is immediately noteworthy as a female
ruler in a culture that didn’t terribly encourage female rulers. She was born a
Phoenician princess and by the best historical accounts (which, let’s make
clear right from the beginning, are all reported fourth-hand by Greeks--it’s a
great tragedy, at least in my view, that Dido actually lived within a
historical period in a society with a fastidious record-keeping tradition, but
most of the records happen to have been destroyed) was made co-ruler with her
brother when her father died. Nevertheless, a power struggle ensued between
Dido and her brother, and in consequence her husband was murdered. She was forced
out of power in her home kingdom and embarked on a mission to found her own
city, which she accomplished successfully. (And how many ancient Mediterranean
cities name a woman as their founder?) Carthage, her new city in North Africa
(Qart-hadasht is Phoenician for “New Town”), went on to become an important state in the
Mediterranean and menaced Rome for several centuries until it was crushed,
decimated, and repopulated by Roman settlers. Throughout Carthaginian history,
Dido was honored as the founder and was depicted on Carthaginian coins like an
old-world George Washington.
Dido is famous from the Aeneid, and that’s a shame. Women in the
Aeneid overall have a bad reputation.
Vergil’s female characters tend to personify chaos, irrationality, selfishness,
vindictiveness, and resistance to the grand plans of patriarchal benevolence as
represented by Jupiter and Aeneas. (These traits are applied to Vergil’s female
characters as a substitute for personality; the only exception is Lavinia, who
as substitute for personality has…nothing. Although I hear she might be more
interesting in Ursula K. Leguin’s novel.) So it’s unfortunate that the vast
majority of people who hear about Dido hear about her from Vergil, in whose
epic she is depicted as above all romantically obsessed with the hero. Even
though she is, before Aeneas arrives, the competent queen of Carthage whose
priorities center on her people’s needs, once she meets Aeneas she quickly
falls in love with him and things go downhill. Her romance with Aeneas spirals
out of control until she is neglecting the needs of the state in favor of her
love life. When Aeneas attempts to leave in pursuit of his original mission,
Dido tries to detain him, but her efforts fail, Aeneas departs, and she rages
through the streets. Finally, driven insane by grief and frustrated love, she
commits suicide. The narrative arc follows her overall loss of dignity and
competence as she, in her feminine weakness, succumbs to the allure of romance.
As I say, it’s a shame that when people
hear about Dido, this is the Dido they hear about, because this is not the only
version of the story recorded. When Vergil wrote the Aeneid around existing legendary characters--Aeneas, the Trojan
colonist who settled near Rome, and Dido, the Phoenician colonist who settled
in north Africa centuries later--he did some serious reinventing of the
characters. Although Varro depicted Aeneas meeting Dido and her sister, we have
no evidence that anyone prior to Vergil depicted Dido as falling in love with
Aeneas. In fact, pre-Vergilian legend depicted Dido as being unwaveringly loyal
to her first husband (the one her brother killed), and unwilling to remarry for
any reason. (I wish I could cite a good source for this legend, but again, all
the references we have to this story from antiquity seem to be quoted third-hand
out of Greek compilations of Phoenician compilations. You can try looking Dido
up in Timaeus or Justin, but I doubt you’ll find all the information you want;
I certainly didn’t.) In this version, Aeneas never enters the story. Dido is so
devoted to her late husband that she has vowed never to remarry. Nevertheless,
a local African king wishes to marry her, and presents a generous offer to her
magistrates that would greatly benefit the Carthaginian state. The magistrates
know that Dido will never accept remarriage, so they lay a trap for her: they
outline the benefits that the king proposes to provide, mention that he has
stipulated as a condition of these benefits that a Carthaginian must live with
him to teach him about Carthaginian culture, and they theatrically despair of
finding anyone willing to leave Carthage to perform this service. Dido objects
that any patriotic Carthaginian ought to be happy to provide such a benefit to
the state--at which point the magistrates reveal that the king has requested
Dido specifically, as his wife. Trapped by her words, but still unwilling to
remarry, she commits suicide rather than betray her vow.
Here there is no romantic obsession with a
traveling hero, no consuming feminine weakness that aggressively corrodes her
ability to rule. Her tragic flaw is her integrity, and her devotion to her
husband even when it conflicts with the interests of her state. We can still
debate whether it was healthy that she was so bound up in her identity as her
husband’s wife that she would prefer to commit suicide than remarry, or whether
a good ruler ought to accept a political marriage that benefits the state even
when it is unappealing to the ruler personally, but in any case the
pre-Vergilian picture of Dido is very different from and more respectable than
the suicidal nymphomaniac Vergil shows us. In fact, Dido was held up as the
paragon of the univira, a woman who
only married once and demonstrated devotion to her husband, the kind of woman
men wanted to marry and women were encouraged to emulate. (Talk about the
Paragon of Fidelity!) In Vergil’s Dido there is little virtue that any ancient
people would have held up for emulation.
And in this you can see the mythological
tradition in action. Post-Vergil, people could talk about Dido, but they had to
be clear about which Dido they were talking about, because the one identity had
been split into two ideas, the Vergilian or the non-Vergilian. Do you mean
crazy Dido or virtuous Dido? Unfortunately, Vergil’s account was so dramatic
and influential (and played so well into existing stereotypes of women as
incompetent rulers) that subsequent accounts of Dido tend to be based on it:
Purcell’s opera Dido and Aeneas or Marlowe’s
play Dido, Queen of Carthage, for
example. In these, Dido is an archetypal tragic figure, wretchedly in love with
Aeneas and lamenting how he abandoned her. Nevertheless, the tradition of Dido
as virtuous and honorable stays alive in Servius’ works and Boccaccio’s de Mulieribus Claris. The refashioning
of an old archetypal character (a widowed queen) in order to discuss an idea
that a new mythmaker finds relevant (empowered women cause chaos) is a classic way
to develop ideas through myth, and it is typical for mythical characters to
absorb new meanings and acquire polyvalence as their cultural life goes on.
Dido’s cultural life--like Sappho’s, and like those of many legendary women--has
exemplified a strong dichotomy between her “good” aspect and her “evil” aspect,
and although her “evil” aspect tends to be better known, I at least would like
to see her “good” aspect remembered.